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The secret is... there is no secret.

SECRET_TO_BLOG_-_IMAGE_1_CHIVALRY.jpgBe Chivalrous 

What I can tell you is that ladies prefer a true gentleman, chivalry is not dead. I know that in these confusing times of equal rights, going dutch and all of that other mess, a true lady still wants to be treated like a princess, so go right ahead, open doors and pull out chairs, it’s NOT beneath you. If you think that way, then you might not deserve to be in her company. If you’re out with a lady to catch a bite, ask her what she would like to have as her meal and order for her (make sure you don’t mess it up) or else she’ll think you weren’t listening. Speaking of listening, when she speaks, look her in the eyes and give her your undivided attention. Ask yourself if your Mama would be proud of your behavior??

  • Tips to chivalry:
    • Be consistent (not just the first date)
    • Clean your car
    • Put some effort into your appearance

Don’t boast or bragSECRET_TO_BLOG_-_IMAGE_2_LISTEN_TO_HER.jpg

Instead of telling her all about you, what you’ve done, what you have and how special you think you are, ask her to tell you about her, what she’s done and then sincerely tell her how special you think she is. Nobody likes a bag of hot air, but people do like to talk about themselves, so ask her questions about herself. Ask a question and then just be quiet and listen. If you listen carefully enough she might just give you the roadmap to her heart.

  • Tips to not being a windbag:
    • Modesty is a virtue
    • Practice listening
    • Don’t be obnoxious

SECRETS_TO_BLOG-_IMAGE_3_DANCE_W_HER.jpgDance with her

I woman loves nothing more than to be swept off of her feet but a confident charming and graceful guy (yes, I said graceful). But make sure you are well prepared, no woman likes to have her feet stomped on. I’ve heard many woman say, “I would never date a guy that doesn’t dance”. Take some dance lessons by yourself and learn some slick dance moves that will dazzle any lady. How impressive is it when you see a man and woman dancing beautifully, when you do, I’m sure you wish that was you. Well, it could be you, what’s stopping you?

  • Dance Tips:
    • Don’t be shy (dance anywhere)
    • Move you hips
    • Learn how to dip her

SECRETS_TO_BLOG-_IMAGE_4_MAKE_HER_LAUGH.jpgMake her laugh

Ask any woman what they look for in a man, and "someone who can make me laugh until my ribs hurt" is usually one of the first things they say. You should never underestimate the need for laughter in your relationship, be it your first date or fifth wedding anniversary. Now we know that women really do find funny men more attractive -- so what are you waiting for? Check out our top 10 tips, and you’ll be making her giggle in no time.

  • Tips to make her laugh:
    • Be yourself
    • Be original
    • Laugh at yourself

Like I said, there is no one secret that makes you more charismatic or charming, it’s a series of habits that make you more attractive. These habits are definitely worth developing if you want to be “the guy” that everyone wants to be around.

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is an Arthur Murray International Travelling Consultant, and Franchisee of the Roxbury, Chatham & Morristown NJ. He was a Professional American Rhythm Grand Finalist (1997-2002). He now serves as a World Championship Adjudicator. Danny is a loving husband to Jennifer and proud daddy of Ava, Ariana, and Marcelo.